Here, we will help you identify and begin healing the root wounds that dictate who you choose, what you tolerate, how quickly you attach, and how long you stay, so you can make healthy relationship choices knowing you are already chosen by God.

Welcome to Becoming HER, a space for single professional women of faith who are tired of the two extremes: lowering their standards and accepting any man, or being so independent that they reject every man, even good men.

At 40, and still single, God pulled me from depression to mission when He showed me He had a purpose for my life. Living in that purpose taught me to embrace the life I have. And healing my own wounds taught me to stop choosing from a place of desperation, so I could prepare for the love I want.

That is the journey we walk here: embracing the life you have while preparing for the love you want.